The Prophetic Pause: Taking Time for Yourself is the Key to your Next Breakthrough

There are moments in life when we know, deep in our bones, that it’s time to step away—to listen more closely, breathe more deeply, and reconnect with the version of ourselves that too often gets lost in the noise. Our most recent retreat, nestled along the sun-kissed shores of Mexico, was exactly that invitation.

Surrounded by the rhythm of the waves and the sacred sisterhood of like-hearted women, we created space to shed what no longer served us, to honor what had always been true, and to reclaim what had been forgotten.

The retreat unfolded as a living embodiment of the Radiant Rebirth journey—a return to inner peace, the awakening of intuition, the honoring of longing, and the embrace of our inspired identities. What happened in those few days was nothing short of alchemy.

Here’s a glimpse into the transformation that took place…

Embarking on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, "Venus's Voyage," brought together six remarkable women in the serene landscapes of San Jose Del Cabo, Mexico. Inspired by Venus, born of the sea, the Roman goddess symbolizing love, beauty, and fertility, our retreat aimed to channel her essence, guiding participants toward personal growth and rejuvenation.

Over the course of seven days and six nights, these brave women immersed themselves in transformative experiences designed to awaken their inner strength and creativity. Through a harmonious blend of vulnerable self-exploration, artistic endeavor, intuitive healing and nature immersion, each participant embarked on a unique path toward renewal. Each woman arrived with a unique story, yet common threads of seeking clarity, inner peace, and renewed purpose wove our intentions together.

Our sessions flowed in harmony with the natural rhythm of our breathtaking Mexican setting—beneath expansive blue skies, with the constant music of waves crashing against the shore, barefoot walks on sun-drenched sand, and meals savored in joyful community.

On the first evening, we set our sacred container with great intention. We began by honoring one another’s privacy and presence—committing to hold the space with tenderness and respect. Then we lightened the mood with a playful and profound getting-to-know-you ritual. Each woman wrote something true about herself on a slip of paper, folded it, and added it to a shared bowl. One by one, we drew from this sacred mix, reading aloud and guessing who the truth belonged to. The first slip read, “I’ve been feeling lost, and I came here to find out about myself.” There was a moment of silence—because that truth could have belonged to any of us. That brave confession cracked something open, setting the tone for the courageous vulnerability that would carry us through the days ahead.

As we gently rewired our hearts and minds with the powerful practices of acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, and reframing, something extraordinary began to unfold. We forged deep connections with women who mirrored our own radiance—adventurous, accomplished, and awakening.

Around shared tables, we not only nourished our bodies with delicious meals but also gently held one another accountable—redirecting moments of self-criticism with love, and cheering each other on as new insights took root. We acknowledged each breakthrough, each subtle shift, with reverence. We listened—really listened—to the truths in each other's stories, reflecting back a brighter, more empowered version of the woman speaking.

We began our first full morning with a session of restorative yoga—an invitation to arrive fully, not just in the space, but in our bodies and breath. From there, a nourishing rhythm unfolded: a communal breakfast filled with laughter and fresh local flavors, followed by a guided meditation to gently set the tone for the day ahead. Our morning growth sessions took place in the sun-dappled villa, where we explored personal insights, often paired with a partner to reflect and share.

Afternoons offered sacred space for integration. Some women journaled in quiet corners, others walked the beach with the rhythm of the tide as their guide, while some simply rested—allowing the teachings to settle gently into their being. Later, we regrouped for afternoon sessions that mirrored the morning format, deepening the inner work with fresh clarity. We closed each day in sisterhood over a communal dinner, honoring the power of nourishment—body, mind, and soul.

Midway through the week, we broke from routine and ventured to a local farm-to-table cooking class, where we learned to prepare vibrant, authentic dishes: fresh salsa, creamy guacamole, and hand-wrapped chicken tamales. We filled our bellies with joy and flavor, then wandered through the whimsical shops of Flora Farms, making spontaneous, joy-fueled purchases. We returned to the villa ready for a rest after so long standing in the heat, and maybe with a few more treasures than we planned.

Back in our sacred space, we journeyed inward. In one powerful session, we traveled backward through time to reclaim our pasts—unwinding old narratives and rewriting the story of who we are becoming. During the sharing circle that followed, tears flowed freely as we bore witness to one another’s bravery and vulnerability. Surprising insights emerged—some tender, some fierce—all life-affirming.

On our third day, we were bathed in sound. The morning began with a deeply healing sound bath, each vibration a call to stillness and surrender. One woman felt the nausea that had plagued her lift completely. Others spoke of floating sensations, lucid dreams, and a sense of timeless peace. It was a profound and awe-inspiring journey for each of us. Our radiant facilitator Erin graciously followed with an impromptu Q&A, sharing her wisdom and demystifying the sound bowls that had so clearly stirred something sacred within us.

Our penultimate day was a true invitation into stillness. We spent it nestled in the calming embrace of the spa, allowing our nervous systems to settle and our insights to deepen. Each participant also had the opportunity to receive a sacred healing session with me—an intimate, safe space where she could be deeply seen, heard, and held. These sessions became moments of profound validation and awakening, affirming each woman’s inherent wisdom and the brilliance already alive within her.

As our retreat began to draw to a close, we gathered to voice our personal commitments to continued growth—each woman honoring the shifts she had made and the ones she intended to nurture long after leaving Mexico. We also expanded our hearts to include the collective, declaring our shared hope to become ripples of joy, healing, and radiance in the world around us. Some women left with answers to the questions they brought; others departed with even better treasures: new questions, new perspectives, and the support of a spirit guide they had met during the journey—one they could now call upon whenever needed.

In one especially joyful twist, we surrendered to the rhythm of a salsa lesson. Laughter echoed through the space as we concentrated so completely on each footstep, each beat, that our thoughts couldn’t help but be fully present. It was a beautiful reminder of embodiment—that sometimes, movement is the most powerful meditation.

On our final evening, we gathered on the villa rooftop beneath the glow of April’s full moon, affectionately called the Pink Moon for the blossoms it heralds. There, we created a sacred altar—laying down shells, rose quartz, obsidian, and a pitcher of water to be charged with lunar energy. We crowned ourselves with tiaras to honor our goddess essence, letting the music of moonlight carry us into dance, celebration, and reverence.

As the moon rose over the ocean—bright, clear, and majestic—it mirrored the women we had become: luminous, whole, and in full bloom.

What truly made this retreat unforgettable was the magic that emerged within our circle of women. There is something incredibly powerful about gathering in a space where women are free to show up as they are—vulnerable, fierce, radiant, and deeply real. The trust built so quickly, and in that trust, transformation happened. As we shared our stories, each woman was met with empathy, encouragement, and strength from the others. We held space for each other’s journeys, celebrated each other’s breakthroughs, and nurtured the collective energy that lifted us all. The support was palpable, like an invisible thread that connected us all, pulling us toward our highest selves. It wasn’t just about what each of us brought individually—it was the sum of our shared experience, our collective wisdom, and the boundless love we gave one another. This was the true magic: the sisterhood that was born and will continue to grow long after we’ve parted ways.

The next morning, as we waited for the van that would carry us back to our “other” lives, we sipped from the moon-blessed water—our own sacred nectar of remembrance. It was a quiet yet powerful closure. We didn’t just say goodbye; we acknowledged the birth of something new.

Every woman left lighter. Clearer. Replenished. And forever changed.

As we each returned to our daily lives—with sand still in our suitcases and moonlight in our hearts—we carried more than just memories. We carried renewal. The kind that seeps into your bones and reorients your path with clarity and devotion.

This retreat was not just a pause from the world. It was a sacred YES to ourselves. A reclamation of our deepest truth, and a collective remembering that we are never alone on this journey.

If you’re reading this and feeling a tug at your heart—a quiet longing to reconnect with yourself, to be seen, held, and celebrated in the presence of other powerful women—consider this your invitation. The journey of radiant rebirth is not one we’re meant to walk alone. Whether you’re seeking clarity, healing, joy, or simply space to exhale, there is a place for you in this sacred circle. Let this be the moment you say yes to yourself in a whole new way. Because your transformation begins the moment you decide you're worthy of it. And sister, you are so worthy.

We invite you to join our growing on-line community, the Goddess Haven, where you can get a taste of the kind of support these women experienced. Or participate in our upcoming retreats. Our next retreat will be in Breckenridge, Colorado, in August. Have a look at the Radiant Rebirth website for details on how to secure your space. Together, we continue to uplift and inspire, rise and radiate!